tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post9067368039957968585..comments2023-01-25T14:18:36.693-08:00Comments on Dichotomy: A split by which a person experiences or sees opposing forces: A letter to G-dmimshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14429375252898974928noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-47733511159745647992009-11-26T16:11:10.651-08:002009-11-26T16:11:10.651-08:00FYI, Mims is getting married in a few weeks.FYI, Mims is getting married in a few weeks.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376537400767851942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-87029184054210502402009-11-26T11:51:50.350-08:002009-11-26T11:51:50.350-08:00(note, finding a goal and making a campaign about ...(note, finding a goal and making a campaign about some issue may indeed find you a husband who believes as you do, as some shadchan listens to someone like you rant about it, and say "hey, mim rants about this too, and distributes pamphlets, etc. maybe i should make a match out of them!"Looking Forwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04876831969877780546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-11304341094131321702009-11-26T11:49:53.511-08:002009-11-26T11:49:53.511-08:00after reading this, religion by its self isn't...after reading this, religion by its self isn't enough. Some people present it as if it is, but it isn't.<br /><br />one needs A community, even if that means just finding a spouse who believes what you do and is as crazy as you are, and B Finding some goal to further, which can be as simple as being a good mother, or as complicated as trying to change the world, bit by bit of course.<br /><br />Religion can give you ways to think about how to find a goal that makes you happy, or you could devote your goal to trying to change certain things about frum culture, make a campaign to try and fix something thats wrong. just becasue the big rabbis aren't fixing it doesn't mean that its not a problem( see sicha parshas pinchas, in chelek daled of lekutei sichot.)Looking Forwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04876831969877780546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-44529366890984701472009-07-29T03:45:03.145-07:002009-07-29T03:45:03.145-07:00The shorts can be worn with or without a baseball ...The shorts can be worn with or without a baseball cap.<br />Also, good luck. (there's a lot of meaning, warmth and empathy in those two words. Blogger's fault if you don't get em right)the sabrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07134516234799909775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-78473367946847304442009-06-23T22:38:23.524-07:002009-06-23T22:38:23.524-07:00ah you mean this one
http://image01.shopzilla-ima...ah you mean this one<br /><br />http://image01.shopzilla-images.com/resize?sq=140&uid=735352895<br /><br />yes i do favour that style, but i still wanted the peryvian one...Dowyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09021846859139669074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-86060948372092146632009-06-23T12:30:22.808-07:002009-06-23T12:30:22.808-07:00Dowy, you still had a pretty cool winter hat.Dowy, you still had a pretty cool winter hat.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376537400767851942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-33767398901607433992009-06-23T10:07:59.946-07:002009-06-23T10:07:59.946-07:00it's a hat! anyone can wear a hat..looks aweso...it's a hat! anyone can wear a hat..looks awesome.mimsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-37588992456368479962009-06-22T22:28:07.854-07:002009-06-22T22:28:07.854-07:00i actually like this one
http://us.st12.yimg.com/...i actually like this one<br /><br />http://us.st12.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/yhst-93500565727161_2045_5167751<br /><br />but see a womans wearing it...Dowyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09021846859139669074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-66204194908049733762009-06-22T22:22:52.263-07:002009-06-22T22:22:52.263-07:00well i wanteed to wear something like this
http:/...well i wanteed to wear something like this<br /><br />http://www.fancyworldonline.co.uk/product_thumb.php?img=images/DSC00199.JPG&w=104&h=125 <br /><br />in the winter that is - but didnt...partly becouse i thought people might think it femenine, but mainly becouse i never found one i really likeddowynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-43852254723067978472009-06-22T12:24:32.937-07:002009-06-22T12:24:32.937-07:00why are u doing it? you are right, sometimes the e...why are u doing it? you are right, sometimes the end is not worth the struggle. we hope that if we go through the struggle and get t he end it will be worth it. but its not always like that.<br /><br />yes, all ppl feel this way once in a while. frustrated. want to break out of the box. wondering why we bother.<br /><br />most ppl let out their frustrations, and move on, till the next time. thees no answer, no resolution. only peace of mind, if u are lucky enough to find it.Altiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08772248808276734643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-87995556088318818572009-06-18T20:45:21.564-07:002009-06-18T20:45:21.564-07:00"Seduced by a rabbi and an unspoken promise.&..."Seduced by a rabbi and an unspoken promise." Yep, that's what it's about. I too was seduced by unspoken promises, not to become frum but to become super-chassidish.<br /><br />And sometimes the promises don't work out. With a fundamentalist religion like ours, when things go wrong you can tell yourself that what you're doing is Right and True, so even if it's a pain in the butt, it's still worthwhile.ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376537400767851942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-86702768811595984802009-06-18T17:56:47.945-07:002009-06-18T17:56:47.945-07:00hey
yes Ive been unhappy about religion before i ...hey<br />yes Ive been unhappy about religion before i say go ahead with the pants if you need to wear them, in the house for sure. Judaism is definitely not about not wearing the pants you love. Look for the love running at you with open arms-- a relationship with G-d a place where you care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-59738298949224503292009-06-17T18:56:03.502-07:002009-06-17T18:56:03.502-07:00And why aren't you working? >:DAnd why aren't you working? >:Dbonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233228445664358396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-45196961135333732162009-06-17T18:50:23.646-07:002009-06-17T18:50:23.646-07:00But he's already got that mad awesome black un...But he's already got that mad awesome black underwear on top of his leggings...bonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233228445664358396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-54068974641913989522009-06-17T18:31:18.080-07:002009-06-17T18:31:18.080-07:00batman would wear the shorts. he's just that c...batman would wear the shorts. he's just that cool.mimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429375252898974928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-85898046159749854072009-06-17T18:26:19.308-07:002009-06-17T18:26:19.308-07:00Been wondering all day what to comment here, what ...Been wondering all day what to comment here, what I'm left with is; <br />What would Batman do?bonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18233228445664358396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-29439469035425059112009-06-17T18:20:51.422-07:002009-06-17T18:20:51.422-07:00cherrio-that's why i posted this, to see if an...cherrio-that's why i posted this, to see if anyone feels this way. if they do, i know i'm not alone and to just hold on to as much as possible.<br /><br />c- my new goal is buying the shorts :) and wearing them inside the house. sarahbonne is in for a treat.mimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429375252898974928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-52786370957353749072009-06-17T10:49:27.127-07:002009-06-17T10:49:27.127-07:00That's a tough situation to be in. It's h...That's a tough situation to be in. It's hard to think that the last four years have been a waste, or that you may be doing everything wrong.<br /><br />I cannot relate completely to how you feel because I was born into this live. I've experience feeling alone and empty and frustrated with life in general, but I don't think it is because I am religious. Sometimes, we work hard toward a goal. The problem with reaching that goal is that there is no longer a purpose to continue. Maybe we need to set new goals, reach new heights, move on to another level in life?Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14449603130202899676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-63661589656159835932009-06-17T08:01:36.688-07:002009-06-17T08:01:36.688-07:00i wonder sometimes if all those shluchim, or peopl...i wonder sometimes if all those shluchim, or people like the girls i went to sem with, those people who seem to be religous and chassidish so easily, have experiences like these. like what you're going through or what i'm going through. and if they don't, what does that mean? why do some of us have such a hard time getting it to work??Cheeriohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12150227399518692959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-25685557337952611642009-06-17T07:57:06.606-07:002009-06-17T07:57:06.606-07:00I think a lot of us feel this on some level. It...I think a lot of us feel this on some level. It's almost/sorta what we make for ourselves. Most of us just try and ignore that little voice...le7https://www.blogger.com/profile/08982516647753962603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3995115778562587310.post-4205206263443917822009-06-16T22:53:42.087-07:002009-06-16T22:53:42.087-07:00Sheesh. That's a pretty powerful post. I'm...Sheesh. That's a pretty powerful post. I'm a guy and I don't even wear shorts! But seriously, yeah, religion doesn't promise happiness. At least, it shouldn't. Meaning in life maybe. But not happiness.Just like a guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14680468025321981540noreply@blogger.com